Another Good lesson when U want marry How to Choose good wife?

A good wife is the cause of happiness in this
world.
She helps her husband to obey Allah it, and offers
him
spiritual tranquility and peace.
The Prophet SAW said: Life is a pleasure and the
best of it's pleasures is a good wife.
Islam has ordered a man to find out about his
future wife.
He has to make sure that she is a good wife and
that she practises all her religious obligations.
If a wife knows nothing about Islam and does not
meet her religious obligations, she will make a
fool of her husband in front of people and spoil
his life.
The Prophet SAW has insisted that a man should
choose his future wife according to religious
considerations because such a wife will be a help
and support for her husband's most important
concern as a Muslim, that is, his religion.
The Prophet ai said: If Allah has blessed any of
you with a good wife, He but has helped him with
half of his
religion, so he should fear Allah with regard to the
other half
On the authority of Sa'd Ibn Abu Waqqas
The Prophet SAW said: "Four things are the cause
of happiness:
A good wife,
A large house,
A good neighbour and A comfortable transport.
And four things are the cause of misery .
A bad neighbour,
A bad wife,
An uncomfortable transport and
A small house.
The Prophet SAW said: The best woman among
you is she who pleases her husband when he
looks at her, obeys him when he orders her and is
faithful towards him regarding her person and his
property if he is absent.
The Prophet SAW said: "A woman is married for
four things, Examle:-
her wealth,
her family status,
her beauty and
her religion.
So you should marry the religious woman
(otherwise) you will be a loser.
On the authority of Thawbaan We were with
the Prophet on one of his journeys when the
verse,
(those who hoard up gold and silver, and spend it
not in the Way of Allah, announce unto them a
painful torment) was revealed. One of his
Companions said, "It has come down about gold
and silver. Would that we knew which property is
best so that we might acquire it!"
He replied, "The best property is a tongue which
mentions Allah, a grateful heart, and a believing
wife who helps a man with his faith.
Cooperation between the husband and wife to
obey Allah ft results in a mutual understanding
between them.
Cooperation is the symbol of a Muslim society,
Allah ft says, (Help you one another in virtue and
piety)
The Prophet also encourages couple to help each
other in reaching the perfect position in Faith.
He urges them to sincerely worship Allah,
especially during the "Night Prayers".
Abu Hurairah 4 said that the Prophet said: "May
Allah have mercy on a man who gets up at night
and prays, and
Transmitted by Imam Ahmed, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn
Majah.
A1-Ma'idah: Verse 2.
awakens his wife; if she refuses, he should
sprinkle water on her face. May Allah have mercy
on a woman who gets up at night and prays, and
awakens her husband; if he refuses, she should
sprinkle water on his face.
Abu Saeed al-Khudri said that the Prophet said:
When a man himself wakes at night and wakens
his wife and they pray two Rak' ahs together,
they are recorded among the men and women
who make much mention of Allah
An old woman whose face was shining with joy
and beauty was asked: What sort of makeup do
you use?
She said: I use for my lips the Truth, for my voice
remembrance of Allah, for my eyes lowering my
gaze, for my hand performance of good deeds, for
my body sincerity and straightness, for my heart
the love of Allah, for my mind wisdom, for my
soul obedience of Allah and for my desire the
Faith (Eemaan).